Self-confidence is the key characteristic of the alpha male. When you have self-confidence people will find you attractive, no matter what your physical appearance. Women are attracted to self-confidence like moths to a flame. I like to call self-confidence the great equalizer, because having self-confidence, and the self-esteem that goes along with it, can make up for any physical shortcomings you might have.
Let’s face it, beautiful women find guys with high levels of confidence and self esteem attractive and desirable.
So how’s your confidence level? If you aren’t as confident as you feel you need to be, (are you insecure around women, particularly beautiful, stunning women?) then coming up with a plan to increase your self-confidence is something you need to do if you want to become the type of man women find attractive.
Looking at the long term, do you want lots of beautiful, hot women to be attracted to you?
Self-Improvement is sexy, attractive and will get you more dates
I’m all about making things easy and the easy path to dating starts with improving yourself in those areas of your life where you see shortcomings. Women love a man with a goal and a plan to get there. This is what alpha males do. They never sit back and settle with where they are in life, they are constantly striving to be more and to have more. Women will respond to this in a good way.
Look at women’s magazines. They’re full of ways women can improve themselves in every way. The desire to become a better person is an attraction trigger for women. They find this quality in men seductive and desirable. High quality women want a high quality man.
So let’s decide to take action on ourselves and to become the better man. No matter what your confidence level you should working on yourself today. The mere act of starting a self-improvement program will in and of itself work wonders on your self-confidence and self-esteem.
How to build self-confidence
So how do we go about building up our confidence level? Once we need realize that how we see ourselves determines how much self-confidence we have the plan becomes obvious, we need to improve our perception of ourselves. Here are some ways we can do that:
1) Affirmations. Since self-confidence is mental and based on the thoughts we have about ourselves it only makes sense that changing our self-dialogue, the things we say to ourselves, has the power to change our thoughts. We’re always going to be thinking of something so we might as well make it something positive and uplifting.
2) Dress better. – How we dress and display ourselves to the world says a lot about who we perceive ourselves to be. Basically, when you dress better you’re treated better and you feel better. If you take the time to watch a few makeover shows on TV you’ll see that changing the way we dress is one of the critical steps to making a new and better impression. When people give you more respect you’ll find your internal world, and your self-confidence will improve as well.
3) Change your posture. – How you carry yourself reveals how you feel about yourself on the inside. By the same token, changing your posture can powerfully influence how both you and the outside world see you. The advice Mom always gives you, “stand up straight, shoulders back, make eye contact” is good advice in this area.
4) Walk “with authority”. – You’ve heard the phrase, “he walks with a spring in his step”, well how you walk also affects how you feel about yourself and how the world sees you. Important and confident people walk with a purpose, which generally means they walk at a fast pace, head up and focused.
5) Work out. – Being physically fit has an enormous impact on how we see ourselves and on our energy levels. Get out, get moving and get some oxygen. Make some form of exercising a part of your usual routine and you will start to see enormous improvements in both your self-confidence and self-esteem.
So there you have it, 5 ways to get started on improving your self-confidence and self-esteem. I would encourage you to take a look at your life and find ways to use these suggestions. You’ll be happier, more attractive and a better person. And that will make more women desire you.
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